Hello..thank you for taking the time to become familiar to who I am (Smile) ok.*Here goes* I am 42, the most important things in my life revolve around my children at the present..although there is a huge place saved just for that one special man..Laughter is medicine for the soul and I love high dosages of that..mixed with heaps of Love...I try not to take life to serious..but i take most things to heart..sorting them out. I am confident in the fact that i know how to love as well as recieve it..i have a passion to be the most special to that one man who gives that in return. Romance, Oh yes like most women its a given that i love it..giving and recieving..I enjoy sports..(watching and playing) and a good book i cannot put down. I enjoy writing as well..a great way of expression when you just cant find the right words to say. I love camping, theatre..even fishing.. I am an avid believer that learning something new each day makes me a better person or atleast more aware..and yes, this is a good thing. I enjoy being silly ..spontaneous. and knowing that at anytime i can show affection and it is welcomed..communication is a must... I love deep conversations, do they need to make sense or come to some major conclusion with an answer? no no..just expanding ones mind and being able to explore is wonderful and this doesnt always have to include a conversation on "should the toilet seat be left up or down?" if its up, my mother taught me I'm capable of putting it down..amazing! My favorite quote: Death is not the greatest loss in life, the greatest loss is what dies inside of us while we live.

Ideal Person: I am looking for a strong man..strong meaning strength in heart..knowing himself enough that he also can be sensative without the threat of losing control. Words from the heart can hurt more than any strike of the hand. Strong enough to admit when he may have made a mistake as well as allowing me to admit mine. Someone who enjoy's laughter and doesnt take life to serious and at the times that he does..allowing me into his world to make it easier. A man that is willing to try new things..new adventures..and be just as happy staying at home and cuddling on the couch listening to music. Am interested in a man that can be a teacher as well as a student as I believe we can always learn from one another..my partner in crime *grinz* ..I'm looking for a lot of play..serious and fun! Seems like a lot to ask..but i promise all that i ask i am more than willing to give in return. I'm looking for someone who isnt looking for a one night stand (that is soooooo not what I'm about) I"m from Northern Iowa and look forward to hearing from you *smile*

Happy emailing, Cupie

cupidsclwn@hotmail.com

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